True love is we stick together in "thick and thin". Especially when it's thin, when it's troublesome. Then we should really bridge over the "troubled water". That's what they say in English. But most of us fail the test, to ourselves, not to our partners. He might leave you, he might stay with you, because you're nice or not nice. But you fail yourself. You leave yourself. You leave the most noble being that you really are. So we should check up on this to our family members or whomever that is beloved and dear to us. Most of the time in critical situations, we just turn our backs and that is no good.
Of course we have our anger, our frustrations1, because our partners are not as loving as usual, or whomever that is; but he or she is in a different situation. At that time, she or he is in mental suffering. It's just as bad or even worse than physical suffering. Physical suffering you can take a pill or you can have an injection and it stops or at least temporarily stops, and you feel the effect right away; or at least if people are in physical suffering, everyone sympathizes with them. 在線作文批改系統(tǒng)，<a href=http://www.zequeka.cn/jiaoshoulanmu/>易優(yōu)名師作文批改</A>
But when they are in mental anguish2, and we pound them more on that, and we turn our backs and become cold and indifferent, that is even more cruel, even worse. That person will be swimming alone in suffering. And especially they trust us as the next of kin3, the next person, the one that they think they can rely on in times of need; and then at that time, we just turn around and are snobbish4, because they didn't treat us nice so we just want to revenge. That's not the time. You can revenge later, when he's in better shape. Just slap him.
Actually, at that time, the person is not his usual self anymore. He was probably under very great pressure that he lost his own control. It's not really lost his own control, but for example, when you are in a hurry, your talk is different. Right? "Hand me that coat! Quick! Quick! Quick!" Things like that. But normally, you would say "Honey, please, can you give me that coat." Is that not so? (Audience: Yes.) Or when you're in pain -- for example stomach pain, heartache or whatever -- you scream loudly; and anyone who comes to talk to you, you don't talk in the usual way anymore, because you're in pain. 提升作文素養(yǎng)，尋找作文素材，就來<A http://www.zequeka.cn/yuwensuyang/>易優(yōu)作文素養(yǎng)</a>。
Similarly, when you are in a mental or psychological pain, you talk also in a very grouchy5 way, very cross. But that is understandable. So if we -- any so-called loving partner or family member -- do not understand even this very least, very basic concept, then we're finished. Then we are really in a bad situation. It's not that the partner will do anything to us. Whether he does anything to us later or not, that is no problem. The problem is us. The problem is we degrade ourselves, that we make less of a being of ourselves than we should be, than we are supposed to be, or that we really are. So do not make less of a being of yourselves.
1 frustrations
挫折( frustration的名詞復(fù)數(shù) )； 失??； 挫??； 失意
參考例句：
The temptation would grow to take out our frustrations on Saigon. 由于我們遭到挫折而要同西貢算帳的引誘力會(huì)增加。 Aspirations will be raised, but so will frustrations. 人們會(huì)產(chǎn)生種種憧憬，但是種種挫折也會(huì)隨之而來。 作文能力提升，就來易優(yōu)作文,https://www.euw.net
2 anguish
n.(尤指心靈上的)極度痛苦，煩惱
參考例句：
She cried out for anguish at parting.分手時(shí)，她由于痛苦而失聲大哭。 The unspeakable anguish wrung his heart.難言的痛苦折磨著他的心。
3 kin
n.家族，親屬，血緣關(guān)系；adj.親屬關(guān)系的，同類的
參考例句：
He comes of good kin.他出身好。 She has gone to live with her husband's kin.她住到丈夫的親戚家里去了。
4 snobbish
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參考例句：
She's much too snobbish to stay at that plain hotel.她很勢利，不愿住在那個(gè)普通旅館。 I'd expected her to be snobbish but she was warm and friendly.我原以為她會(huì)非常勢利，但她卻非常熱情和友好。
5 grouchy
adj.好抱怨的；慍怒的
參考例句：
Grouchy people are always complaining for no reason.滿腹牢騷的人總是毫無理由地抱怨。 Sometimes she is grouchy, but all in all she is an excellent teacher.有時(shí)候她的脾氣很壞，但總的來說她還是一位好老師
