1. "Nevermind, I'll just do it myself."
Marriage pro1 tip: When you ask your spouse2 to call the plumber3 to fix the sink, give him a chance to do it. Rolling your eyes and saying, "nevermind, I'll do it myself" may result in you getting your sink fixed4 sooner, but it's also likely to rub your spouse the wrong way.
2. "You should have known."
You're setting yourself up for disappointment if you expect your hubby to decipher every last gesture and statement you make, said Ryan Howes, a clinical psychologist based in Pasadena, California.
3. "Do you think she's hot?"
Do you really want to know your husband's thoughts about an attractive woman? Probably not - plus, you're putting your spouse in an uncomfortable, no-win situation, said Kurt Smith, a therapist who specializes in counseling men.
4. "We need to talk."
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No four words strike fear into a married man's heart quite like "we need to talk." Opt5 for something less ominous6 sounding the next time you bring up an issue, said Marcia Naomi Berger, a therapist and author of Marriage Meetings for Lasting7 Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted.
5. "Man up."
Seriously? There's no right or wrong way to be a man. For your spouse's sake, let your gender8 expectations go and try to have a civil conversation.
6. "Pick up after yourself. I'm not your mother."
There are better ways to encourage your spouse to put his dirty socks in the hamper9 than telling him you're tired of feeling like his mom.
7. "You never, you should have, you ought to..."
Sorry, but chiding10 your spouse about how he never does the dishes (or takes out the trash or drives the kids to school) isn't likely to inspire change, Berger said. 易優(yōu)作文批改系統(tǒng)，易優(yōu)作文打分、易優(yōu)作文評分評價 <a href=http://www.zequeka.cn/jiaoshoulanmu/>易優(yōu)作文批改</A>
8. "You've put on a few pounds lately, huh?"
Instead of pointing out changes in your spouse's appearance, be supportive and tell him you'd love if he joined you at your cycle class sometime, said Becky Whetstone, a Little Rock, Arkansas-based therapist.
9. "You're going out with the guys again?"
Don't look at Fantasy Football meet-ups and golf trips as threats to your marriage. It's quite the opposite, actually; some time apart will likely do your relationship good, Howes said.
1 pro
n.贊成，贊成的意見，贊成者
參考例句：
The two debating teams argued the question pro and con.辯論的兩組從贊成與反對兩方面辯這一問題。 Are you pro or con nuclear disarmament?你是贊成還是反對核裁軍？ 易優(yōu)作文批改系統(tǒng)，易優(yōu)作文批改、易優(yōu)作文點評 <a href=http://www.zequeka.cn/jiaoshoulanmu/>易優(yōu)作文批改</A>
2 spouse
n.配偶(指夫或妻)
參考例句：
Her spouse will come to see her on Sunday.她的丈夫星期天要來看她。 What is the best way to keep your spouse happy in the marriage?在婚姻中保持配偶幸福的最好方法 是什么？
3 plumber
n.(裝修水管的)管子工
參考例句：
Have you asked the plumber to come and look at the leaking pipe?你叫管道工來檢查漏水的管子了嗎？ The plumber screwed up the tap by means of a spanner.管子工用板手把龍頭旋緊。
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adj.固定的，不變的，準備好的；(計算機)固定的
參考例句：
Have you two fixed on a date for the wedding yet?你們倆選定婚期了嗎？ Once the aim is fixed,we should not change it arbitrarily.目標一旦確定，我們就不應(yīng)該隨意改變。
5 opt
vi.選擇，決定做某事
參考例句：
They opt for more holiday instead of more pay.他們選擇了延長假期而不是增加工資。 Will individual schools be given the right to opt out of the local school authority?各個學?？赡苡袡?quán)選擇退出地方教育局嗎？
6 ominous
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adj.不祥的，不吉的，預兆的，預示的
參考例句：
Those black clouds look ominous for our picnic.那些烏云對我們的野餐來說是個不祥之兆。 There was an ominous silence at the other end of the phone.電話那頭出現(xiàn)了不祥的沉默。
7 lasting
adj.永久的，永恒的；vbl.持續(xù)，維持
參考例句：
The lasting war debased the value of the dollar.持久的戰(zhàn)爭使美元貶值。 We hope for a lasting settlement of all these troubles.我們希望這些糾紛能獲得永久的解決。
8 gender
n.（生理上的）性，（名詞、代詞等的）性
參考例句：
French differs from English in having gender for all nouns.法語不同于英語，所有的名詞都有性。 Women are sometimes denied opportunities solely because of their gender.婦女有時僅僅因為性別而無法獲得種種機會。
9 hamper
vt.妨礙，束縛，限制；n.(有蓋的)大籃子
參考例句：
There are some apples in a picnic hamper.在野餐用的大籃子里有許多蘋果。 The emergence of such problems seriously hamper the development of enterprises.這些問題的出現(xiàn)嚴重阻礙了企業(yè)的發(fā)展。
10 chiding
v.責罵，責備( chide的現(xiàn)在分詞 )
參考例句：
She was chiding her son for not being more dutiful to her. 她在責罵她兒子對她不夠孝盡。 來自《簡明英漢詞典》 She called back her scattered maidens, chiding their alarm. 她把受驚的少女們召喚回來，對她們的驚惶之狀加以指責。 來自辭典例句
