Don＇t Hesitate to Say "No"
1.別人請(qǐng)求幫助時(shí)，在什么情況下我們會(huì)說(shuō)"不"
2.為什么有些人在該說(shuō)"不"的時(shí)候不說(shuō)"不"
3.該說(shuō)"不"時(shí)不說(shuō)"不"的壞處
Don＇t Hesitate to Say "No"
To help those who are in need is always regarded as a traditional Chinese moral. However people have to know well what the need is before the help is offered. When the need is just for some minority＇s benefit and against most people＇s interests, or when it is immoral or unlawful, people should not hesitate to say No. Otherwise they will put themselves into trouble.
Unfortunately, there are so many such examples around us that people end up their leadership in jail or bury their glory in shame simply because they don＇t say "No" while they should. Some people are reluctant to say "No" in front of all kinds of briberies as they want to swamp their power for money. They can＇t resist the temptations of accumulating wealth in a fast but illegal way. For their own good and their friend＇s favor, these people would sacrifice millions of RMB Yuan for an unproportional commission and therefore stake there future on scales of law. Other people don＇t say No because of misinterpreted friendship and lack of sense of law. They never hesitate to do whatever their friends ask them to do. They believe they are helping their friends even when they are actually violating the law or local regulations. Such people will also be punished according to the degree of their misbehavior. 蘇州易優(yōu)吳老師初中語(yǔ)文高效提分（Tel:181-1815-9898）
Therefore, to help is not always doing good. People should learn to say a No when the help might hurt other people＇s interests.
毫不猶豫地說(shuō)"不"
1. 別請(qǐng)人幫要求協(xié)助時(shí),在什么情況下解況們會(huì)說(shuō)"不"
2. 為什么有些人在該說(shuō)"不"的字句時(shí)不說(shuō)"不"
3. 該說(shuō)"不"時(shí)不說(shuō)"不"的壞處
毫不猶豫地說(shuō)"不"
幫助那些需要一直被視為中國(guó)傳統(tǒng)道德. 但人們必須知道什么是前提供幫助. 必要時(shí)只是一些少數(shù)民族的利益,對(duì)大多數(shù)人的利益,或者是違法或不道德的,我們不能諱言第否則將成為麻煩.
不幸的是,有很多這樣的例子在我們周?chē)?領(lǐng)導(dǎo)人民結(jié)束了自己的輝煌里埋葬或因不辱說(shuō)"不",而應(yīng)該. 有些人不愿意說(shuō)"不"前,各種賄選要權(quán)錢(qián)交易的沼澤地. 不能抗拒的誘惑,而非法斂財(cái)?shù)目焖俚缆? 對(duì)自己好,朋友的青睞,他們將犧牲了數(shù)以百萬(wàn)計(jì)的人民幣unproportional委托關(guān)系,因此,在未來(lái)的法律尺度. 不說(shuō)別人不理解,因?yàn)槿狈τ颜x和法律意識(shí). 他們毫不猶豫地做他們的朋友,請(qǐng)他們做. 他們認(rèn)為他們的朋友,幫助他們即使是違法或地方性法規(guī). 這些人也將受到程度的偏差. 蘇州吳中區(qū)小學(xué)生語(yǔ)文提優(yōu)，蘇州名校沖刺培訓(xùn)，（Tel:181-1815-9898）20余年輔導(dǎo)經(jīng)驗(yàn)，每年都有數(shù)十個(gè)成功案例。
因此,并不一定辦好事,幫助. 應(yīng)該說(shuō),沒(méi)有人知道何時(shí)可以幫助其他損害人民群眾的利益
