People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically1, emotionally, or spiritually.
They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient2 time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. Sometimes they die.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. Your need has been answered, and now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant3.
1 physically
adj.物質(zhì)上，體格上，身體上，按自然規(guī)律
參考例句：
He was out of sorts physically,as well as disordered mentally.他渾身不舒服，心緒也很亂。 Every time I think about it I feel physically sick.一想起那件事我就感到極惡心。
2 inconvenient
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adj.不方便的，令人感到麻煩的
參考例句：
You have come at a very inconvenient time.你來得最不適時。 Will it be inconvenient for him to attend that meeting?他參加那次會議會不方便嗎？
3 clairvoyant
adj.有預見的；n.有預見的人
參考例句：
Love is blind,but friendship is clairvoyant.愛是盲目的，友誼則能洞察一切。 Those whom are clairvoyant have often come to understand past lives.那些能透視的人們已能經(jīng)常理解死去的生命。
《People in your life》添加時間：2024-12-14；更新時間：2025-03-09
