Close your eyes for a moment. You'll know just who I mean here, and it's okay. You don't need to say his name aloud. Maybe you're married. Or he's married. Or both. But you've envisioned a parallel life -- one you will never live, and won't ruin your perfectly1 wonderful life for -- with this one. And this is no idle daydream2. It's just a little bit dangerous. When your eyes meet, you both feel it. Some small part of you wants to know what it would be like to be with him. You find yourself thinking: what harm could there be in a stolen afternoon? Of course you know the answer to this. So you need to keep your distance. A friendship doesn't feel safe or possible. Dear reader, you need to lose him. You can't keep him around. Okay. Now open your eyes. And count your blessings3.
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adv.完美地，無可非議地，徹底地
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The witnesses were each perfectly certain of what they said.證人們個(gè)個(gè)對(duì)自己所說的話十分肯定。 Everything that we're doing is all perfectly above board.我們做的每件事情都是光明正大的。
2 daydream
v.做白日夢(mèng)，幻想
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Boys and girls daydream about what they want to be.孩子們遐想著他們將來要干什么。 He drifted off into another daydream.他飄飄然又做了一個(gè)白日夢(mèng)。
3 blessings
n.（上帝的）祝福( blessing的名詞復(fù)數(shù) )；好事；福分；因禍得福 <a hRef=http://www.zequeka.cn/miNiform.html>蘇州作文培訓(xùn)</a>
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Afflictions are sometimes blessings in disguise. 塞翁失馬，焉知非福。 來自《簡(jiǎn)明英漢詞典》 We don't rely on blessings from Heaven. 我們不靠老天保佑。 來自《現(xiàn)代漢英綜合大詞典》
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